you WERE my bestfriend.

It's actually pretty sad that I don't know what today's date is.When your not in school or you don't really have anything really important to do it really doesn't matter. Today is a day just like yesterday and the day before. The only difference is probably the weather or what you'll do.

I'm really sorry I haven't been blogging much, I've just been so busy having fun and enjoying myself, but I will tell you about my terrible day yesterday. Approximately 3 days ago I started to have this tooth ache. At first it really wasn't bad just some discomfort here and there but eventually it escalated to the point where I found myself crying hysterically. Yesterday I went to the dentist where I had to have a root canal because of some nerve damage due to my stupid wisdom tooth growing in. It wasn't painful at all (although rumors say otherwise). He made sure I was highly sudated and everything went well. Thankfully Kwame waited and stayed with me which I really want to thank him for. I could barely talk afterward since my mouth was completely numb but it wasn't so bad.

My random thought of today is why do people make there significant other such a priority. I'm not talking about people who are married, just teens/young adults who are in a relationship. Looking at some of my friends it seems like everytime they have a girlfriend/boyfriend they forget about their friends who are in many cases just as important. Friendships and even best friends end a relationship because the person simply can't balance it out.

So my question is : Is it wrong to make your significant other such a priority that you forget about your friends that have known you for years, or is it just expected ?

For me personally my answer is yes. For most of my life my friends have been my life and as they say boys come and go. To me my friends are not less than or more important than my boyfriend, they are just as important. However, I think that most people don't think that way. Once you get in a relationship it becomes all about them and no one else. I've seen people who were best friends completely not speak to each other anymore because of a boy. A BOY ! Idk for myself I think Kwame understands how important my friends are and he even knows them so it makes things easier. But who knows.

What do you think ?